The Fascination with Bum Cracks.

Yeah, you read it right. Spencer loves those words. Bum cracks this, bum cracks that. Its all he can talk about, and then proceeds to fall to the floor laughing till he has tears. While this is fantastic to watch, I have heard enough about the bum crack to last me a life time. I am not certain where the interest came from, but for god sake, enough already! He wonders about little bum cracks and big bum cracks, why bum cracks are on a person's back and so on and so forth. Remember the whole perseverating post? Well, we are no longer stuck on block buster. Yep, its all about the ass crack these days.

Yesterday, he stepped out his comfort zone and started talking about boobs. I cringe, as he works through his skills for reasoning by asking about big boobs and little boobs. The entire time, all i can think about, is my prayer that he doesn't ask his teacher about her boobs or her bum crack. Yikes, I am nauseous just thinking about it. Wondrous thing is, he has mastered telling everyone that their behavior is inappropriate. I guess when you hear "that's not appropriate to talk about" consistently, you add it to your repertoire of words to save and use for later. We will need to work on this for the next while i am sure. Oh how i long for the days of the pleas for Blockbuster. Instead, i now have to face my little boy who runs naked into my room, proceeds to turn around and say "Wook at me, shakin da bum cwack". This all occurs as he does some crazy dance and waves his arms wildly. Did i mention that i feel nauseous? :)
I guess i should probably focus on the fact, that he is developing a sense of humour. He wants to laugh and make people giggle right along with him. That's a bonus for sure, but man can't we talk about clowns or falling down or even farting? Until we get this under control, I hold my breath. Waiting for him to blurt out those words.

Amazing, the worries I have carried for the last few years. Will my son ever talk? Will he ever carry on a conversation? Will his words ever come together enough that he can develop some friendships? I used to be so sad travelling in the car as there was always complete silence from the back seat. I used to talk for hours to Spencer with very little response. I hoped that if i kept talking, one day he would surprise me and we could talk about all the things he loved in life.
NOW...........I am horrified and ashamed to say that i sometimes wish he would just stifle himself!!! Only when he has boobie and butt crack days. I never ever thought i would think things like "God Spence, enough already, can't you be quiet for 5 minutes?" I get over it real quick though, when i realize that he comes by it naturally. His Mother never shuts up, so why should he?

With that being said, I suppose i should celebrate. So...... here's to all the Bum Cracks and Boobies of the world, and all the other conversations I never thought I would be blessed enough to have with my most special and comedic boy. That alone is something worth celebrating.

Destination Coolsville....

So the funniest thing happened. Well, my daughter doesn't think so, but i on the other hand, am over the moon. She has decided that her younger brother is cramping her style. She came home yesterday and informed me that she doesn't like her little brother attending the same school as her. Based on all my other posts about this relationship, i am sure you are all stunned with disbelief. :) Anyway, when i asked her why she didn't like his presence at her school, she responded by saying "Mom you should see him at school....he acts all cool with his friends." Helllooooooo????? Come again??? My little baby is trying to act cool? The same boy who 2.5 years ago, was only content flipping the pages of a phone book and was often in a world of his own. From lining up blocks to waving things in front of his face over and over, suddenly she tells me that he is acting "cool"? How can this be?

She goes on to tell me that she sees him around the school and has the giggles and acts silly, then he and his 2 buddies make faces at her and run away. Can i just mention here, that internally, i was about to double over in hysterics? Of course i do my best empathy routine and give her a hug, but come on folks...this is a Mom's dream. I ask her if he is doing this on his own, or if its something that seems strange? She said "they all seem strange MOM.......Spencer fits right in"!!!!!!!!!! Out of the mouths of babes. He's making connections.

Now i might add here, that the one boy he is friends with seems to have quite a case of ADHD, so he never stops chatting. He's wired for speed and allows Spencer along for the ride. The amazingly beautiful thing about it, is that they compliment each other. Spencer calms this boy and this boy encourages Spencer to open up. He is the perfect match for Spencer. The teacher says they just seem to "fit". I love this boy, because he loves my son. He gets so excited when he sees my Spencer, talking a mile a minute and barely coming up for air. How can i not adore a child who sees all the great things i see in my son? They are two peas in a pod. So together, they are ruling the school? I am currently giggling as i picture it. Ok maybe not ruling the school, but enough of a pain that they have my daughter wincing. She's the one who is usually the most popular, highest achieving and is VERY well known by teachers and students alike. This is a good thing....a very good thing.

I never thought i would ever hear anyone say that my son was acting cool. A few years ago, i would have been thrilled if he could just say the word "cool". He can be silly. He can get into mischief. He wants to belong. Wow......he has always been the coolest boy i know. Now the rest of the world is beginning to see it too. Lucky them. :)